Well folks, it’s World Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Day 2025, so, let me drop one of my unfiltered Quora answers here in tribute:
While I’m not sure exactly why it’s so hard to let go of the anger after narcissistic abuse, much less abuse of ANY kind, what I do know is that speaking from personal experience, I ALLOWED the “THING” that temporarily made me ITS little bitch to anger me longer than IT deserved to! As I’ve worked through, grown, and thrived in the wake of the years of not just my lifelong HOOVERING narcissist’s damage report, but the damage inflicted upon me by my malignant narcissist “father“, it’s the stoic mindsets and principles that I’ve drawn strength from and adhered to the most. As such … NO MORE! No one gets to take up space in my head in ANY regard unless I fucking say so!
As for “Hoovery MacHooverson”, the “two grapes and a ‘lil cocktail pickle BOY dick in between ‘em” that’s been slithering after me like a Jean-Claude Van DAMN actual vacuum cleaner for going on 30 years now, my disdain for it avails itself in my head as comic relief at this point, NOT anger. Although it wasn’t ever really “my master”, because I was just to weak, vulnerable, and uneducated at the time to realize that the power it once had over me was all MY doing, not its, because NO ONE can pull your reins unless you ALLOW them to do so, I gave it the power to believe it was “my master” long e-fucking-NOUGH!
I’m not gonna lie, folks, but if and when the day ever comes that I get news that it has finally kicked it and slithered on back to hell with its own kind, I’m going to laugh my FUCKING ass off. That’s awful, right? Yah, don’t worry. I’ll take my medicine for that flagrant disregard for “life apparent” when I meet my Maker. That being said, I’m just thinking there WILL be grace for not giving two FUCKS whether the spawned that walks among us lives, dies, or chokes on its own fucking vacuum cleaner dust.
Meanwhile … to any of you in narc abuse recovery right now, I say this:
WAKE UP AND TAKE BACK YOUR POWER! Haven’t those THINGS that tried to devour your soul had enough of you already? You deserve to RESERVE your “anger and retribution” for actual PEOPLE who matter enough in this world to own real estate in your heart. SPAWNED CREATURES FROM HELL DO NOT! You are SO much better than that! Rise above your anger for them and spend it on someONE whose lifeblood actually adds value to humanity … not THINGS that only subtract from it. Just sayin’!
By the way, here’s an EPIC song about breaking the chains that once held you captive and taking back your power. Hopefully Quora won’t delete it, because trust me when I tell ALL of you “angry narc victims” out there … it needs to be your fight song during recovery! BE PISSED … THEN LET IT GO!
The Diary Of My Perfection 
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