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SEPTEMBER 30, 2026: “The Truth About Questions” …

Today Canada observes its National Day for Truth and Reconciliation, honoring the children who never returned home from residential schools, the Survivors, and their families and communities. Their stories deserve to be heard on their own terms. Here in the United States, the day has me thinking about the questions we sometimes silence in our own lives. That thought takes me back to an earlier entry:

I have long believed that the truth of just about anything can be found in all the questions you aren’t allowed to ask. A more sobering truth, however, is that often the person who is refusing to allow “the questions” we so desperately need the answers from is the one we face in the mirror. With that being said, I cannot encourage anyone who’s searching for the reasons they’re sinking to the abyss strongly enough to do that most important work of all, which is to sit with yourself in solitude and have what just may be the most important conversation of your life.
(“The Anchor“)

Might I suggest that you “get lost” until you “get found” by following the questions YOU “aren’t allowed to ask” all the way down to the truth? Just sayin’.

– Tyson Liberto –

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MARCH 26, 2026: “ALONEology 101!” …

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Loneliness can be cultivated instead of feared. The deeper we learn to understand ourselves, the less we depend on being fully understood by everyone around us.

{Janet Fitch}

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“Loneliness does not come from having no people around you, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to you.”

{Carl Jung}

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Well, folks? Who’da ever thunk I’d discover that there is, indeed, such a thing as “Solitude Day” … aaaaand TODAY’S the freakin’ day!

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As far as I’m concerned, loneliness is rarely about the empty “physical spaces” within which so many of us dwell. Rather, it’s about the empty space in a person’s soul where they carry the weight of all the unspoken words and truths they’ve managed to convince themselves not to “think, speak, or feel” because they simply don’t feel safe enough to share them with anyone, including themselves.

In my experience, however, true healing and growth are about taking whatever time is necessary to figure out what matters most in your world (regardless of who you share your spaces with), then learning how to SPEAK it ALL so that YOU are no longer alone with it! It’s how you let yourself be truly SEEN for what and who you really are, which (P.S.), in the paradoxical twist of all twists, is indeed how YOU attract the most important person you will EVER be in a relationship with …

YOU! 

… aaaaand THAT, my friends, is how you become the BEAST who is “alone” but not “lonely”! Thoughts? Drop me a comment if you dare! I’d love to hear from you.

Dark red flower artwork for ALONEology 101, representing solitude by choice rather than loneliness by default.

Moonlit Queen of the Night flower with an original reflection on creativity, solitude, and making what is most true in us.
About The Real Cat Williamson — Warrior, Motivator, Survivor.