I’ll try to keep this as short as possible, but can’t make any promises …

So, let me go back to the very first glimpse of the rabbit hole I almost fell into after an entire week of being chastised, reprimanded, scolded, and all but burned alive on a cross for voicing my opinions, feelings, views and support for the personal “bandwagon” I have jumped on amidst what I truly believe is Atlas Falling. Lol! Of all the punches I’ve taken this week, the worst was a comment by a now former friend who calls herself “a Christian”:

Wow, so glad to finally see you!

No, it wasn’t a compliment. She heard me say “I love oranges”, then took it upon herself to assume that I don’t also love apples and pears. Who the FUCK is she to judge me by picking only the lines that best suit her schooling of my beliefs?

Meanwhile, last night at 5:53pm, this:

… which then led to this at 8:00pm:

… which then led to this at 8:21PM:

… at which point I felt a little better and was able to fall asleep. But alas, that victory was short-lived, because THEN I woke up to this:

This “memory” couldn’t have come at a worse time, since I had just recovered from almost falling backwards less than eight hours prior.

It was Mother’s Day 2019 that was the beginning of his descent, but it was on June 5, 2014 after having had to stay home and take care of us for a while that truly began his unravelling. I’d been getting ready for bed, only to find him waiting in bed lost somewhere inside his own mind:

Baby? Is everything okay? Where were you just now?

I had to physically push him to get his attention. When he turned his head to look at me there were tears rolling down his face:

Catherine, I don’t think I ever realized ‘what I never had’ growing up until now. What she never gave me. What she never did for me, but she DID do for all of them. Going through all of this with you has been a blessing and a curse. She threw me away. They all did. Every one of them. It’s as though I just don’t exist. I wasn’t good enough for her. For them. They never wanted me. I’m nothing.

Meanwhile, there I was laying in bed this morning and unable to face the empty spot beside me, so, I turned the other way to avoid looking in that direction. I became fixated on the wall where the light seeping through the blinds that shroud the windows was trying desperately to reach me. I was all but paralyzed, and too numb to even cry, until I picked up my phone and saw this:

… which THEN led to this at 10:54am:

… and thus, my profound conclusion: 

GOOD MORNING VIETNAM!

I’m STILL a fortress. I’m still a queen. I’m still the strongest bitch I’ve ever known, with the greatest King of all Who has never failed me. As par for the course, He’s already got this whole thing figured out for all of us. If I so much as think about letting this fortress I’ve become crumble, He bombards me with signs and love notes from His heart and reminds me that I’m never gonna be alone. This morning, He answered my cry with the most beautiful Molotov cocktail I’ve ever seen through a picture and the words of a stranger:

You fukin’ go kick ass today!!!!

So, with that, “I’m going back in” with everything He’s given me for the battlefield, not the least of which is the Cosmic validation I needed in the words of total strangers. Everything IS gonna be okay!

HEAVEN HELP ME

When I can’t find the words. When I can barely breathe. I’m falling on my knees. Heaven help me. Heaven help me. When I can’t feel You near, and I can’t hear You speak. I’m falling on my knees. Heaven help me. Heaven help me. Help me. Help me. ‘Cause I can’t walk this road alone, and I can’t do this on my own. Tell me. Tell me. I just need to hear You say that everything will be okay. When I don’t understand. When I don’t think I can. I know You have a plan, so Heaven help me. Heaven help me. Help me. Help me. ‘Cause I can’t walk this road alone, and I can’t do this on my own. Tell me. Tell me. ‘Cause I just need to hear You say that everything will be okay. Help me believe it. When I can’t see it. Help me to know it. When I can’t hold it … {Zach Williams}