A red streak stands apart from a crowd of charcoal figures on an aged ivory background, with a Three Days Grace lyric about individuality and being drenched in gold.
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APRIL 25, 2026: “No, She Wasn’t (Ever Ordinary)!” …

(no one): “Okay, so, lemme get this straight? She cooks … bakes … sews … sculpts … paints … rolls muscle on a stick … can change her own oil, tires, and wheels … can rock a pair of kitten heels like NOBODY’S effing business one day and a machine gun the frigging next … and she’s smart, kind, caring, compassionate, and extraordinarily beautiful? Yah, right!”

Umm, YAH! RIGHT!

… but why would we wanna blend in when we are drenched in gold? Never far … never out of reach … the embers in the dark lay quiet … burning just beneath. Isolated … complicated … girl, we found a way to make it out ALIVE (and not feel so alone)! These days, when I look at you, I see that you’re just like me … a misfit runaway with gold plating underneath. I love you, Gia, and literally couldn’t be any prouder to call you “daughter” if I tried.
(“Never Ordinary“)

No, she really wasn’t ever ordinary. Through the darkest nights, she was born to shine. Truth being told, when I look at her I see she’s really not just like me. She’s “Me 5.0”! All the best parts of me burn through her even brighter than can possibly be put into words. Lol! I’ve always said that someday, when I grow up, I hope to be more like her and less like me, but let’s face it: I am who I am, it is what it is, and “growing up” just isn’t on my short list.

For now, I’ll just be her crazy Peter Pan momma, flitting about happily in my own little world in the tailwind of her stardust.

About The Real Cat Williamson — Warrior, Motivator, Survivor.
A red streak stands apart from a crowd of charcoal figures on an aged ivory background, with a Three Days Grace lyric about individuality and being drenched in gold.
Family & Love, Healing & Resilience

AUGUST 22, 2025: “Never Ordinary” …

Gia wearing a decorated cowboy hat and black top in a warm sepia portrait, with a softly lit castle in the distance.
“Audacious”
Framed Alienation album artwork by Three Days Grace, with charcoal figures and a red brushstroke on aged ivory.

Three Days Grace released this one today with their Alienation album on what also happens to be the anniversary of one of the worst days of my life, but even more so, THE worst day of hers. If only you knew what we know to be true about what she endured in the wake of his insanity, you’d be baffled as to how she’s still standing as one whole human being.

Nevertheless, she’s extraordinary. She’s fire … and magic … and courage … and kindness. She is so not like the others and has risen from ashes that should have literally desecrated her soul. Even still, SHE SHINES! And so, with that …

Dear Daughter,

We were NEVER ordinary, and all the weight we’ve carried will help us keep writing our story. In the darkest night, we were born to shine!

When the nights grew cold but our blood ran warm and everything we’d touched just seemed to melt away and leave us alone, no one understood the noises in our head but US. Such a simple melody playing over and over again. But why would we wanna blend in when we are drenched in gold? Never far, never out of reach, the embers in the dark lay quiet … burning just beneath. Isolated … complicated … we found a way to make it out alive (and not feel so alone)!

These days, when I look at you, I see that you’re just like me … a misfit runaway with gold plating underneath. I love you, Gia, and literally couldn’t be any prouder to call you “daughter” if I tried.

~ Momma

  • A lioness stands protectively behind her cub in golden light. Quote by The Real Cat Williamson: “I thought about quitting, but then I remembered who was watching me. So, I straightened my crown and showed her how to do what queens have to do!”
  • My daughter will be dangerous. Something raised tall and wild, thorned and beautiful. Like honeysuckle - nourishing to some, and poisonous to others. My daughter will be dangerous, made of wit and razor. She will not smile when told, or be made into something obeying. She will not be a delicacy for someone to covet. Her worth will not be weighed in admiration, but in the fullness of her heart. My daughter will be dangerous because she will know that love is not built with fear, and she will know the boundaries of her own permission. My daughter will be dangerous like brave things are. She will know that threats come dressed as desperate men, and she will learn to laugh in the face of those who believe her to be weak. You will not silence someone raised to roar. She will know the ways I’ve failed, the times I’ve fallen, and I will walk beside her until we fly together. And when she wonders who she is, I will trace each of her fingertips with my love. I will hold her hands in my own and I will remind her that she is everything. I will honor her from scraped knees to broken heart. I will love her from before her first breath, and beyond my last. She will be dangerous, not because she is my daughter, but because of who she is herself. — J. Raymond, The First Ten: Selected Poems 2015-2024.
  • Red handwritten lettering on framed ivory reads: “To my daughter, keep going, because you deserve to see what happens when all of your hard work pays off.”
  • A winged woman falls through dark clouds beside a Three Days Grace quotation asking how to help a loved one who has hidden their pain.

About The Real Cat Williamson — Warrior, Motivator, Survivor.